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		<title>Sales Information Is Not Sales Intelligence</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Mar 2011 14:27:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Brock</dc:creator>
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I&#8217;m a tremendous fan of many of the Sales 2.0 tools.  I think any high performing sales person must exploit these tools to the fullest.  They enable people to magnify their effectiveness greatly, as well as improving their efficiency.
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<p style="text-align: justify;">I&#8217;m a tremendous fan of many of the Sales 2.0 tools.  I think any high performing sales person must exploit these tools to the fullest.  They enable people to magnify their effectiveness greatly, as well as improving their efficiency.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">At the same time, I really worry about these tools, they beccome crutches and faciliators of stupid behaviors, enabling people to make tragic mistakes at the speed of light.  It&#8217;s not the tools I worry about, it&#8217;s how sales people utilize them.  Too often, I&#8217;m seeing people apply them blindly&#8211;with terrible results.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Some true&#8211;but almost unbelievable stories:</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Just because It&#8217;s On The Internet Doesn&#8217;t Mean It&#8217;s Accurate:</strong>  (This one may seem unbelievable, but it&#8217;s true)  A sales team asked me to review a key account strategy.  They asked me to be involved because I had extensive experience with the account.  As they begain the review, they went over the organizational structure, identifying key people they were going to develop relationships with&#8212;clearly they wanted me to introduce them to a few of the top people.  I saw a name at the top of the chart&#8211;I asked them, where they had gottent the name.  They mentioned a one of the leading tools on the market.  It&#8217;s pretty good, I actually use it for a lot of my research.  They said they had done their &#8220;research&#8221; and had identified the key execs.  They showed me the page on the web, profiling these executives.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I sighed, &#8220;Well, he certainly did have that role, I knew him well, he was a good guy.  I attended his funeral 12 years ago.  He was way too young when he passed away.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The problem with many of these tools that collect names is they simply scrape documents on the Internet.  This gentleman&#8217;s name naturally appeared in many ole press releases, annual reports, proxy statements, so his name was added to the profile of the account.  These tools have a terrible problem with keeping accurate profiles.  There are so many changes, so much movement, that accuracy is difficult.  Many of these tools are useful starting points.  They help identify key people and profiles.  But in using them, it&#8217;s important to check to see the information is still valid&#8211;a call to the company can easily verify this.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>If The Information Is There, Wouldn&#8217;t Be A Novel Idea To Use It:</strong>  Recently a new connection at LinkedIn sent me a very nice note through LinkedIn.  It thanked me for connecting and offered me assistance in a number of areas I might be interested in.  It suggested he could make a few introductions, it also suggested he could provide a few services&#8212;helping me with developing my sales process, my sales strategies, etc.  I thought the note was interesting, clearly this individual had not looked at the information in my LinkedIn profile. Several of the people he wanted to introduce me to and link ne with were people I was already connected to.  With one, there was a series of great discussions between us on LinkedIn.  Also, in reviewing my profile, looking at my blog posts (which are linked), one could easily see that I tend to have a point of view about selling processes and sales strategies, so I might not be a good prospect for selling me services on those areas.  Clearly, the guy had not read my profile or followed a couple of links.  Clearly the &#8220;welcome&#8221; letter was a form letter he sent blindly to all his new connections.  He was trying to be &#8220;social,&#8221; but wasn&#8217;t using the information for anything other than expanding his <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">Spam</span>, I mean mailing list.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">There is so much information available in LinkedIn, Facebook, many other tools.  Googling someone&#8217;s name and <strong>reading</strong> the information can give tremendous insight&#8212;but you have to read and analyze it.  You can&#8217;t use it blindly.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Try Reading The Information And Responding In A Relevant Manner</strong>:  Another LinkedIn attacke.  This morning I get a response to a discussion I have started in LinkedIn.  The discussion referred to my past blog post on Selling At An Inflection Point.  I get a request from a sales person, putting his &#8220;best foot forward,&#8221;  wanting to apply for the job and giving me his relevant experience.  &#8220;Huuugggh?  Did you read it?  It had nothing to do with a job position!  Is this your example of how well you are using information on the web?  Are you even relevant? Take five giant steps backwards and be ashamed to call yourself a consultative sales person.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>So You Took The Trouble To Get The Information, What Does It Mean:</strong>  A friend of mine is CEO of a mid sized organization (a few $100M).  Recently, some changes they were making appeared in a number of publications along with interviews with her about those changes.  In a meeting, she pulled out a box and showed me 10 letters.  She said, &#8220;Dave, you should see this&#8230;.&#8221;  Nine of the letters went something like this, &#8220;I see the changes you are making and wanted to arrange a meeting to sell you something.&#8221;  (I&#8217;m shortening it).  She went on to say that she had received over 100 letters/emails like that. </p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"> Then she showed me the 10th one.  It was a thoughtful note from a sales person.  It went something like this, &#8220;I enjoyed reading about the changes your organization is going through.  In researching your markets and company, it occurred to me there might be some challenges in these areas&#8230;&#8230;.&#8221;  It went on to describe three key issues very concisely, suggesting how they might be addressed.  It also described in one paragraph the person&#8217;s experience in helping others with the issues.  The email was a about a page printed out.  Her response to me was&#8211;this is the only person that went beyond the information in the press and tried to give us some insight about them.  He wouldn&#8217;t have known that we have already anticipated them and are taking the same steps he recommended to avoid them.  But he showed real insight into the things we are facing with the company&#8212;we&#8217;re meeting him next week to see if he can help us in other areas.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Too often, sales people use information they&#8217;ve seen on the web or in other announcements as a prompt to &#8220;pitch,&#8221;  not thinking about it, analyzing it, and providing deeper insight.  This one person had done this.  He demonstrated great depth in understanding the issues, my friend&#8217;s company, and their markets.  Analyzing the information, not just reacting to it set him apart and secured the meeting.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The web, many of the Sales 2.o tools provide us great capabilities.  They simplify our jobs, they give us easy access to information.  But just having the information isn&#8217;t sufficient.  As sales professionals, we have to convert it into insight and intelligence.  We have to understand what it means, we have do think about the implications.  The data is just the starting point.  It&#8217;s up to each of us about whether we use it intelligently or whether it demonstrates our stupidity.</p>
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		<title>Connecting Versus Relating &#8212; The Disappearance Of Real Relationships</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Oct 2008 16:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Brock</dc:creator>
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There is a great post in the Slow Leadership blog on &#8220;Connecting Versus Relating.&#8221; It speaks to the breakdown of relationships, transforming them into transactions conducted through impersonal channels like email, messaging, Twitter, Blackberry&#8217;s and cellphones. I would also add many of the social networking media.
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<p align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">There is a great post in the Slow Leadership blog on &#8220;</span><a href="http://www.slowleadership.org/blog/2008/10/connecting-versus-relating/"><span style="font-family:arial;">Connecting Versus Relating</span></a><span style="font-family:arial;">.&#8221; It speaks to the breakdown of relationships, transforming them into transactions conducted through impersonal channels like email, messaging, Twitter, Blackberry&#8217;s and cellphones. I would also add many of the social networking media.</p>
<p>While these &#8220;tools&#8221; have made all of us much more accessible and available&#8211;the emotional connection is lost. Relationships&#8212;at least meaningful relationships are built on trust and emotional connections. The new ways we &#8220;connect,&#8221; while convenient, strips away that connection. It seems to me, the more we substitute these convenient ways to stay visible and &#8220;connected,&#8221; the more the true nature of the relationship erodes. Ultimately, we lose the connection, probably without knowing it and we continue the transactions.</p>
<p>These tools also create a shield that enables us to do things that are unthinkable in a real relationship&#8211;we can start shading the truth&#8211;which gives way to outright lying. We can avoid addressing tough issues head on, or we can do it in terribly insensitive ways. Not having to look someone in the eye, talk to them voice to voice, to understand the reaction limits us terribly.</p>
<p>Research indicates that 70% of communication is non verbal&#8212;most of us interpret this as &#8220;body language,&#8221; and other subtle clues we pick up in face to face communications. It would stand to reason the more we come to rely on maintaining relationships through non-direct ways, the more we lose in communications &#8212; and the more we lose in relationships and our ability to trust.</p>
<p>Our worlds, whether business or personal, are increasingly complex. We are all time poor. The new social tools and means of &#8220;connecting&#8221; add some convenience and speed to communication, these tools are only a complement to building and maintaining meaningful relationships.</p>
<p>We all fall victim to this. It is so easy to send a quick email or SMS. I recently reconnected with a colleague, responding to her invitation over Facebook with an message &#8220;glad to reconnect.&#8221; I got no response and started wondering why aren&#8217;t we really connecting &#8212;- and the answer is so simple &#8212;- I should pick up the phone.</p>
<p>I am having some &#8220;challenges&#8221; with a client&#8212;who also happens to be a good friend. We seem to be waging electronic war, or at least I seem to be, to resolve a difficult business issue. The other day, he yelled &#8220;uncle&#8221; electronically &#8212;- I got an email &#8212; &#8220;Dave, a phone call would work&#8230;. &#8220;</p>
<p>We are actually both guilty. We both let the safety of hiding behind email help us avoid a difficult conversation &#8212; but one that will quickly resolve the situation. Doing that has damaged our relationship &#8212; but hopefully not irreparably. I need to give Bill a call!</span> </p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2008 01:35:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Brock</dc:creator>
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I&#8217;ve written a number of times about Social Networks and Networking. Today, I read a nice blog entry at thd Dumb Little Man-Tips For Life Blog: Stop Networking and Start Building Relationships.



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<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">I&#8217;ve written a number of times about Social Networks and Networking. Today, I read a nice blog entry at thd Dumb Little Man-Tips For Life Blog: </span><a href="http://www.dumblittleman.com/2008/02/stop-networking-and-start-building.html"><span style="font-family:arial;">Stop Networking and Start Building Relationships.</span></a></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Echoing my thoughts, they write: &#8220;Creating working relationships should be the goal of networking, not meeting as many people as possible.&#8221; They comment on MySpace, Facebook, and LinkedIn, saying: &#8220;We need to shift our goals from numbers and volume to quality and relationships. After all, the point of networking is to connect yourself with others who can help you, as well as you help them. Relationships, communication and trust are fundamental to this.&#8221;</span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">The article goes on to offer tips on creating value and trust based relationships. It is worthwhile reading. I commend the authors on a good article.</span></div>
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I just read in interesting article in the Wall Street Journal: How To Network Without Sabotaging Your Own Job Hunt. It discusses a number of issues very appropriate to effective networking.



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<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">I just read in interesting article in the Wall Street Journal: </span><a href="http://online.wsj.com/article/SB119672504225112393.html?mod=hps_us_editors_picks"><span style="font-family:arial;">How To Network Without Sabotaging Your Own Job Hunt.</span></a><span style="font-family:arial;"> It discusses a number of issues very appropriate to effective networking.</span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">There are many people in my close networks who see value in staying connected. We talk or email each other, we exchange ideas, we continue to look for things of interest to each other. These are effective relationships that I value and invest in.</span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">There are those other people &#8220;in my network.&#8221; These are people who I may have tried to build a relationship with, who for various reasons have been unresponsive to the communication. However, out of the blue, I get communications from them, and always, it is a plea for help: &#8220;I&#8217;ve lost my job, can you help me?&#8221; &#8220;I need funding for a new company, will you invest in the company?&#8221; The list goes on. </span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">I am confused by the expectation of people who spurn communications and contact until they need something. In addition to their request for help, they seldom ask about me. When they ask, it is always nominal, because their concern is about themselves. I find it difficult to invest in those people.</span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Finally, there are those who are going after quantity, seeing the number of connections or friends they have in <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">LinkedIn</span>, <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">Facebook</span>, <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">MySpace</span> or others as a competition. &#8220;He who has the most listed wins.&#8221;</span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">On a daily basis, I get people asking me to join their network. Many come from people I have never met and do not know how they reached me. Some come from people who I have encountered. For each, I always respond: &#8220;I would be delighted to join your network and have you join my network. Can we arrange to speak soon so that we can get to know each other and how we might help each other out?&#8221; On over 90% of those, I get no response, yet I get reminders to join their network or other pleas to join.</span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Here, I have a criticism to the suppliers of these tools. I think their tools need to be more focused and purposeful in developing networks. People should think and value those they invite. Instead, they offer to send invitations to everyone in your Outlook Address Book. My Outlook Address Book captures many addresses of people I do not know, but are on the same distribution I am on. This automated processing of networks reinforces the mentality of quantity over quality.</span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">The Wall Street Journal Article offers a few nice sound bites:</span></div>
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<p align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Read the article. Think about it. I encourage everyone to build networks that create value and quality for everyone <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">involved</span>.</span></p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Aug 2007 18:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Brock</dc:creator>
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I&#8217;ve been curious about the phenomenon of adding friends, passing on introductions, etc. The two networks I actively participate in are LinkedIn and Facebook.



Recently, though LinkedIn, I have received invitations from several old, long lost colleagues. I have anxiously responded, accepting their invitations. With every response, I send an email, expressing my delight at re-connecting [...]
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">I&#8217;ve been curious about the phenomenon of adding friends, passing on introductions, etc. The two networks I actively participate in are LinkedIn and Facebook.</span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Recently, though LinkedIn, I have received invitations from several old, long lost colleagues. I have anxiously responded, accepting their invitations. With every response, I send an email, expressing my delight at re-connecting and suggesting a personal dialog&#8211;email, voice to voice or otherwise. In most cases, I am disappointed. These contacts don&#8217;t respond, I&#8217;m added to their list, but never hear from them. What&#8217;s the purpose? I guess they are shooting for quantity over quality.</span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">My physical world networks are very precious to me. I have started to pare my virtual world networks to mirror-in principle-my physical world networks. I want meaningful relationships with people who I trust, whose views I value and who, I hope, value mine. I don&#8217;t want to be a part of a list to see who has the most.</span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">I&#8217;m confused also by those people who &#8220;accept any invitation&#8221; in their virtual networks. I know they don&#8217;t in their physical networks, why the change. Maybe it is only for self promotion, rather than valuing the relationship.</span></div>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">When form triumphs over substance, the network loses value. I think the value of networking is to establish relationships, to invest in those relationships. Without this, what&#8217;s the point? </span></div>
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		<dc:creator>David Brock</dc:creator>
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What are your views about building your &#8220;social&#8221; or &#8220;business&#8221; networks, Quantity versus Quality?

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<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_jVUXAqkbjt0/RrJzhgpBOPI/AAAAAAAAAAk/rRHB7U9RWdc/s1600-h/crowd.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5094261148044310770" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" height="169" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_jVUXAqkbjt0/RrJzhgpBOPI/AAAAAAAAAAk/rRHB7U9RWdc/s320/crowd.jpg" width="251" border="0" /></a>I&#8217;ve been tracking, participating and experimenting in a number of social networking and other community building tools. </span></div>
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<p align="justify"><span style="font-family:Arial;">What are your views about building your &#8220;social&#8221; or &#8220;business&#8221; networks, Quantity versus Quality?</span></p>
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<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:Arial;">As an early invitee to <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">LinkedIn</span> (<a href="http://www.linkedin.com/">http://www.linkedin.com/</a>), I think I fell into the same trap that I saw many people doing: Going for quantity in networks versus quality. In other blogs and posts, there is lots of discussion about this, with arguments for both. I actually tend to fall on the side of a quality network rather than quantity. In <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">LinkedIn</span>, I have been offended by people I do not know, trying to link themselves or their friends though me. If I don&#8217;t know them, why do I feel confident in introducing them to my friends and leveraging my network?</span><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;">My current network, at <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">LinkedIn</span>, about 30 percent of the people, I actually don&#8217;t know. Many of them have been unresponsive to my queries&#8212;I write saying &#8220;we&#8217;re linked to each other, why don&#8217;t we try to get to know each other?&#8221; Why are we networked, what&#8217;s the point other than <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">bragging</span> rights?</span><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;">My real world or physical world network is very important to me, it&#8217;s one I treasure and protect. Why should I, or anyone for that matter, do otherwise for our virtual or digital networks?</span><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;">I&#8217;m starting to pare the list of contacts to represent a smaller but more functional network and a better replication of what I use my physical world networks for.</span><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;">I have recently started using <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">Facebook</span> (<a href="http://www.facebook.com/">http://www.facebook.com/</a>), partly at Jeff <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">Pulver&#8217;s</span> recommendation. It is an interesting application, I like the real world and dynamic feel to it. At the same time, having learned from my experience at <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">LinkedIn</span>, I am being much more careful and slow in expanding my friends and network on <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">Facebook</span>. </span><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;">I&#8217;m also excited about the application and community building aspect of <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8">Facebook</span>. I&#8217;m looking to learn a lot from it.</span><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;">Join me if you want. If you are part of <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9">LinkedIn</span>, my email is <a href="mailto:dabrock@excellenc.com">dabrock@excellenc.com</a>. Send me an invitation. At <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10">Facebook</span>, search for me and send me an invitation. I do want to &#8220;meet you&#8221; and learn about you and how we can help each other, so when you send an invitation, know that is expected.</span></div>
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